River Rise Ramble, January 11, 2024

Riding the Race Needed, Not Wanted

Florida is unpredictable

Riding the Race Needed, Not Wanted

We came in 14th out of 15.  I did not race the race I wanted. But I feel I raced the race I needed.

I wanted to test our speed. But I decided to ride with a more experienced rider who tends to be slow. However, she has two decade team horses which is a goal for me and Roach. Clearly, she knows what to do. Today ended up being ultra slow in the beginning. Her horse was seeing gremlins EVERYWHERE for the first 3ish miles or so.  It took us an hour to cover those three (for perspective, Roach and I cover 5 miles in 50ish or so minutes at a “slow” pace).  BUT I decided to focus on what I could learn from this ride instead of lamenting my goals for top ten.  Things I benefitted: further practice in tempering my competitive nature, conversing with a more experienced rider and figuring out how to do 50s successfully, practicing being in the saddle for HOURS (which is a mental more than physical game), forcing Roach to listen and wait for my cues on trail instead of him insisting on keeping pace with surrounding horses, being forced into riding negative splits (riding a slower first loop and faster second) which I have never done but theoretically want to (and then competition brain takes over).

What happened? Our best vet scores to date and effortlessly returning to a good pulse and feeling like I am mentally closer to being prepared for a 50 than I thought.  Additionally, Roach came in feeling like he had at least another good 15 miles in him and I did too!

So I didn’t race the way I wanted, but I think this was a race I needed. Additionally, I helped calm another horse and I hope, if Roach was being that much of a goober, someone also would set their placing goals aside to help ensure a happy, healthy completed race.  It was a “Do unto others” experience, and I learned and benefited immensely from it. To finish is to win!

Our score card

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